1
Make sure it's air tight since it'll be under pressure. I don't know if this is the right size but something like this would do the trick
1b
Use anywhere that sees boost. Intake Manifold is a good bet. Or the back of the wta core if you have a port there (That's what I used)
1c
Just make sure you research to the intake prior to the turbo. If you have an AFM in your car still it will drive a lot better with the recirc.
3
Is that part of the factory catch can set up? Hard to see from the photo on my phone. If so, it drains back to a port on the back of the head. The port is very close to the water neck but aiming towards the firewall